How to Find a Wedding Photographer Who Will Give You Something Different

In a world saturated with beige photo filters, cookie-cutter poses, and overly sweet storytelling, it can feel impossible to find a wedding photographer who genuinely stands out without tipping over to “alternative” or “quirky”. You want something different—but not gimmicky. You want different, but you’re not into the handlebar moustache, tattoo alternative aesthetic. You’re looking for elegance, style, and artistry.

Something elevated. Something timeless. Something that feels like you.

So, how do you find a photographer who delivers that kind of bold yet refined vision?

1. Look Beyond the “Trendy” Crowd

Some photographers latch onto trends as their selling point—moody tones, pastel washes, or overly dramatic edits. While these styles can feel fresh today, they might look dated tomorrow. Instead, seek photographers whose work feels rooted in substance rather than fleeting trends.

A photographer with a strong art and fashion background is more likely to deliver images that feel timeless. Their work will have depth and polish, elevating your wedding photos to something you’d proudly frame and hang in your home.

2. Find Someone with a Distinctive Point of View

Not every photographer brings the same level of creative vision to the table. Look for someone who has a clearly defined style—one that resonates with your own taste.

Do they understand how to play with composition, light, and shadow? Are their images bold yet elegant? Do they have the ability to take even a modest venue and make it look like the set of a high-fashion editorial?

A distinctive style isn’t about being loud or alternative—it’s about having the skill and taste to create something truly memorable. You might not find that in the alternative wedding “fayres”.

3. Experience Matters, but So Does Passion

There’s a world of difference between someone who’s simply been shooting weddings for 10 years and someone who has honed their craft in editorial and portraiture, then transitioned to weddings with the same level of dedication and creativity.

When interviewing photographers, ask about their background. Have they worked with brands or publications? Do they have experience with directing and creating striking imagery?

An editorial or fashion-trained photographer will naturally bring a fresh perspective to your wedding, turning even small moments into works of art.

4. Avoid Gimmicks, Seek Refinement

It’s easy to spot photographers who rely on quirky props or forced humour to set themselves apart. While there’s nothing wrong with a sense of fun, gimmicks rarely result in timeless photos.

Instead, look for photographers who focus on storytelling through genuine moments, strong compositions, and an elevated aesthetic. Their work will feel effortless but striking, with every image carrying the weight of intention.

5. Check Their Portfolio, Not Just Their Instagram

Instagram is a highlight reel; a portfolio is the full story. While someone’s Instagram feed might look cohesive, their complete body of work will tell you whether they can deliver consistency.

When browsing portfolios, ask yourself:

• Are the photos a reflection of good taste and artistry?

• Do they have range, or are they repeating the same poses in every gallery?

• Would you want to see your wedding captured in their style?

6. Refinement Doesn’t Mean Stuffy

Here’s a key point: different doesn’t have to mean rigid or overly formal. A great photographer knows how to blend boldness with approachability. They’ll capture the laughter, the tears, and the quiet moments, but always with a level of finesse and polish that makes those moments shine.

Why Different Is Worth It

Choosing a photographer who delivers something different isn’t about standing out for the sake of it. It’s about ensuring that your wedding photos don’t just reflect a moment—they tell a story that will last a lifetime.

For couples with an eye for design and a love for bold, editorial-style imagery, working with a photographer who understands art, fashion, and storytelling is transformative. You’ll end up with more than just photos—you’ll have a gallery of work that feels like you, elevated.

If that sounds like what you’re after, let’s chat. With over nine years of experience in portrait and fashion photography, I specialise in creating bold, distinctive images for couples who value artistry and style. Together, we’ll make your wedding look extraordinary.