What to do after getting engaged UK?

Congratulations! You’ve just said “yes,” and now you’re ready to dive into the whirlwind that is wedding planning. Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate gathering in the Kent countryside or a chic city wedding in London, the first steps after getting engaged can set the tone for your entire journey. Here’s a guide to help you navigate those exciting first days and beyond.

1. Celebrate Before You Plan

Before you rush into spreadsheets and Pinterest boards, take a moment to celebrate. Pop the champagne, throw an engagement party, or plan a low-key evening with your closest friends. This is your time to soak up the joy of the moment before the logistics take over.

2. Start Dreaming (and Budgeting)

It’s time to dream big but keep it realistic. Sit down with your partner and talk about your vision for the day. Do you want a grand celebration or a small, intimate affair? What’s most important to you—an epic venue, incredible food, or breathtaking photography?

While dreaming is fun, setting a budget early on will keep you grounded. In the UK, the average wedding costs around £18,000, but small, stylish weddings can cost significantly less (or more) depending on your priorities.

3. Set the Date (or at Least the Season)

You don’t have to choose an exact date right away, but narrowing it down to a season or month will make the rest of your planning much easier. Think about how the time of year will impact your venue choice, the weather, and even your photos.

4. Choose a Venue That Speaks to You

Your venue sets the stage for your entire wedding, so finding the right one is key. Are you drawn to elegant manor houses, chic urban spaces, or picturesque coastal settings? Venues in the South East, like Kent, Sussex, and London, offer an incredible variety of options for every style and vibe.

Pro Tip: Book your venue early—popular spots get snapped up quickly, especially in peak wedding season (May to September).

5. Find a Photographer Who Gets Your Vision

Your wedding photos are the one thing you’ll treasure long after the day is over, so this is not a decision to take lightly. If you’re a couple who values bold, editorial imagery with a touch of fashion flair, look for a photographer who specializes in this style.

In the UK, photography prices can range from £800 for budget options to £4,500 for luxury packages. For couples with a budget of around £2,000-£2,500, you can find talented photographers who’ll create stylish, unforgettable images that reflect your personality and taste.

6. Build Your Dream Team

After your venue and photographer, it’s time to lock in the rest of your vendors. Florists, caterers, makeup artists, and planners book up quickly, so start researching early. Don’t be afraid to ask for recommendations from your venue or other vendors—they often work with incredible local talent.

7. Send Out the Save-the-Dates

Once your date and venue are confirmed, it’s time to let your guests know. Save-the-dates are especially important if you’re planning a destination wedding or if a lot of your guests will need to travel.

8. Enjoy the Process

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but remember—it’s supposed to be fun! Lean into the process, focus on what matters most to you as a couple, and don’t sweat the small stuff.

Your Engagement, Your Journey
The period after getting engaged is one of the most exciting times of your life. It’s a time for dreaming, planning, and building a day that reflects your love story. Whether you’re planning a grand celebration or an intimate affair, make decisions that feel right for you.

And when it’s time to choose a photographer, let’s talk. With years of experience in editorial and fashion photography, I specialize in creating bold, elegant images for stylish couples. Whether your wedding is in London, Kent, or beyond, let’s capture your story in a way that’s unforgettable.